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“5 Steps Back to Love” intensive couples workshop

Join us on Thu, July 16, 2020 8:00 AM – 5:00 PM EDT for this life-changing online couples workshop!

  • s chronic argument, anger, and resentment killing your relationship?
  • Are you feeling stuck and have no idea how to move forward?
  • Have you fallen so far out of love, you wonder if it will ever come back?
  • Are you living more like roommates than partners?
  • Do you feel hopeless in that no matter what you try, “nothing seems to work”?
  • Have you tried “expressing” yourself and “talking through issues”, only to find more, not less, conflict erupts?
  • Have you noticed your health deteriorating along with your relationship problems?
  • Has traditional “talk therapy” failed to provide any answer?

If you answered yes any of the above, learn and apply in one day the revolutionary new approach to resolving conflict and stop an argument immediately.

“5 Steps Back to Love” is a 1-day intensive online couples workshop to help get your relationship back from the “Dead Zone” and get back to “Being Us”.

Take 5 simple steps to learn what “UnTalk” Therapy can do for your relationship and help you and your partner out of the dead zone.

This online workshop focuses on:

  1. How to identify the body and brain changes that incite your angry blow-ups, and how to immediately end the blowups
  2. How to stop your partner from provoking you into an argument
  3. When avoiding conflict heals a relationship
  4. What works, and what does not work, in communication
  5. How your health is directly related to the health of your relationship, and how to improve both

Q: “What is the “Dead Zone”? How can my partner and I climb out of it?”

A: The relationship Dead Zone is a dangerous place. It needs to be navigated wisely and gingerly. Before you decide on a therapist who’ll escort you and your loved one out of your Dead Zone, 3 out of 4 marriages end after traditional talk therapy. That’s because expressing yourself while in the wrong state of mind can actually cause you to slide deeper into the Dead Zone. But if you understand the workings of your brain chemistry before you begin the climb, your chances of escaping the Dead Zone improve exponentially.

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*Disclaimer: The information provided in this online workshop should not be construed as personal therapy advice or instruction. No action should be taken based solely on the contents of this workshop. Readers should consult appropriate health professionals on any matter relating to their health and well-being. The information and opinions provided here are believed to be accurate and sound, based on the best judgment available to the presenter, but readers who fail to consult appropriate therapy authorities assume the risk of any consequences.

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The Douglas Coleman Show

Listen to Phil DeLuca and Douglas talk about communication for the 21st century.

Phil’s Un-Talk Therapy is the most efficient, least expensive method of ending relationship conflict and making communication fun again – just ask any of his clients who’ve “tried everything.”

To talk to Phil about your relationship, call today, or fill out the contact form and click Send.

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Corebrain Interview with Phil Deluca

148 Words of Catharsis & Self Management

​​Phil and Dr. Charles Parker of Core Brain talk about how catharsis may work for the individual but doesn’t work for the couple or for the family team – indeed it can wreck the business team. Feeling mismanagement explored.

Listen to the full interview here.

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How To Build A Great Relationship And Avoid Costly Traditional Therapy

When we find ourselves in a confrontational situation we instinctively go into “fight or flight” mode. If we don’t have the right tools to control the wave of emotions we experience, we will oftentimes go down a path we’ll later regret. This is especially true in our relationships. Disagreements are inevitable in any relationship, and these disagreements can quickly put us into this “fight or flight” mindset.

Listen to the full interview here.

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Here’s how to stop talking in order to communicate better

Phil DeLuca was a guest on The Segilola Salami Show. Philip shared his strategies to help families communicate better and deal with anger management when they stop talking. Click here to listen.

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Sometimes talking isn’t always the answer

Listen to Phil DeLuca as a guest on Raw Relationships.


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Dr Phil talking God and love with the bearded back cowboy

Listen to Phil DeLuca talk on The Larry Stevenson Show – The Bearded Black Cowboy about how to stop talking in order to communicate better, heal your relationship(s) and gain better health!

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Communication and inflammation: how relationships affect our physical health

Phil DeLuca was hosted by Mature Preneurs Talk With Diana Todd-Banks to talk about how communication affects inflammation of the body and the mind. Phil’s alternative communication techniques teach couples how to rewire their relationship for better communication and better health.

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Getting real on the work of making relationships work


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Conflict Intensive

  • s chronic argument, anger, and resentments killing your love?
  • Have you tried “expressing” yourself and “talking through issues” only to find more, not less, conflict erupts?
  • Are you stuck and have no idea how to move forward?
  • Have you fallen so far out of love, you wonder if it will ever come back?
  • Do you feel hopeless in that no matter what you try, “nothing seems to work”?
  • Are you living more like roommates than partners?
  • Have you noticed your health deteriorating along with your relationship problems?

The Reality

When your marriage is in serious trouble, weekly one-hour sessions are not intensive enough to stop the conflict engulfing the couple.

In this situation, an intensive structure can provide the breakthrough a couple needs to disrupt the cycle of conflict in their relationship.

In my Conflict Intensive, you will not only walk away knowing and understanding each other better, but you will take with you a custom-designed action plan that will immediately stop your arguments and start you on the path back to love.

Conflict Intensive

Help! Our constant bickering is killing our love!”

The private marriage intensive program is geared for couples who are committed to the relationship/marriage but stuck a continual conflict pattern. These couples recognize that it could be so much better, but don’t know the way forward.

Other couples appear to be heading for separation or divorce. They have already suffered from years of resentment and anger. These couples are getting close to what I call “The Dead Zone” where there doesn’t appear to be any love left.

In this situation, my intensive program focuses on the process of stopping the conflict. Next, we start to heal the wounds of the past and provide a path back towards closeness. Together we build a very specific and practical action plan to immediately begin the process of building a stronger relationship/marriage.

Consider this as a viable option to stop the drain on your love.

Having witnessed too many couples who found that conventional communication approaches have failed, I have developed a method that will quickly turn their situation around. The Conflict Intensive process is powerful enough to end the years of resentments, arguments, and unforgiveness. This program can bring back the hope they longed for.

What’s Included?

No marriage is the same, therefore no intensive is the same. All intensives include an assessment that will analyze your communication and conflict style. This in-depth, personalized analysis allows us to target these areas quickly. Common topics that are covered during our intensive are:

  • Communication tools that will get you talking not fighting
  • How to rebuild trust once it’s been broken
  • How to heal from hurt so you can move forward
  • How to properly apologize and validate each others feelings
  • How to keep maintaining your marriage
  • How to identify specific triggers that set both you and your partner off
  • When is a constructive time to communicate with your partner and when is a destructive time
  • How to calm down, overcome resentment and heal emotional trauma
  • How to improve your communication and restore your love even if your partner refuses to cooperate

ABOUT THE FACILITATOR

After filling his wall with degrees that espoused traditional “talk it all out” therapy, Phil DeLuca began to rebel and gradually developed his own revolutionary new love science – a holistic body/brain chemistry-based communication model which he shows the couple how to use to fix their relationship.

Intensives are hosted in Charlotte, NC, but I am also available to meet with you in your hometown. All travel-related costs are covered by the couple.

If you would like to learn more, you are welcome to call and book your first appointment or simply fill out my contact form and click send.

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